From Blaming Others To Owning My Success

Published 2025-06-12 08-34

Summary

Horvath’s “The Journey” changed how I view growth—from blaming others to taking responsibility. Now I understand success comes from daily choices, not just big moments. The Law of Harvest transformed my outlook.

The story

I used to think success was all about the big moments – the promotion, the degree, the achievement. Then I read “The Journey” by Attila B. Horvath.

Before, I was the king of blame. My boss didn’t see my potential. The economy wasn’t right. I wasn’t given the right chances.

Now I get what Horvath means about personal responsibility in Chapters 3-5. Growth isn’t something that happens to you – it’s something you choose every day.

The Law of the Harvest hit me hard. We reap what we sow. Those small, daily choices? They were planting seeds for my future, whether I realized it or not.

I started asking better questions. “What can I learn?” instead of “Why isn’t this working?”

The change wasn’t overnight. As Horvath explains, real growth is incremental – consistent progress, not instant results.

I wish I’d found “The Journey” years ago. The idea that my abilities can be developed through dedication completely shifted my view. Now I see failures as teachers.

If you’re navigating career challenges, relationship growing pains, or just figuring out who you are – Chapters 3-5 about mindset, responsibility, and purposeful action are exactly what you need.

I no longer wait for growth to happen. I create it, day by day, choice by choice.

This post was inspired by Chapters 3-5 of my “The Journey – I wish I knew this before I was 21” book, at
https://attilahorvath.net/the-journey.

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Keywords: GrowthMindset, personal growth, accountability, daily choices